The Tantric Lover
How to become and remain a perfect lover
It's rare for a man to want to talk about himself, his relationship with women, his past or present sexuality, and be a source of inspiration for the men and women who listen to him.
The articles we are going to present are inspired by various books aimed at all those who believe that sexuality can be a real form of union with the person you love, a form of fulfillment, discovery, love and self-realization.
Women have come a long way since the 60s. Men have to adapt and find themselves... fully!
Becoming a tantric lover can seem like a new, challenging and rewarding prospect for many men.
It's a quest that integrates body, heart, mind and spirit.
It's good to know that there is a perfect and practical way to experience pure eros, pure erotic energy, multiple orgasms without losing energy (the seed), which you can engage in consciously if you have the courage to take on a beneficial transformation and consciously surrender to all the tantric practices that will be revealed to you.
Men who are very masculine are often looking for sexual performance. That's why he can approach ejaculation retention techniques that are very effective: they open a door for him, initially, to another dimension that is totally different from that of ordinary sexual interaction.
He becomes a man who is strong in his relationship with his lover and in his relationship with himself, so that he can then enjoy the fruits of ecstasy. This doesn't mean that he should be obsessed with performance - it's for the man to understand that the tantric lover is an alliance that exists between him as a lover, the man who is in harmony with his virility, and the feminine aspect, the power to relate and receive, the source and origin of life, and not to dominate, control or act out the opposite sex.
Ancient tantric spirituality supports the path of the true man and affirms that the prolonged orgasm, which is experienced every time there is no ejaculation or discharge (on the part of the woman) - is always a formidable springboard that propels us, as if by magic, to clearly higher dimensions of our common consciousness.
The worldly perspective also says that the ordinary orgasm with discharge is an extraordinary gateway. But in that case, you haven't even had a chance to glimpse the wonders beyond the threshold and you end up with what you least want - the door slamming in your nose. That's why the moment of raw orgasm is so short it almost hurts, hence the feelings of shame and nostalgia we often experience afterwards.
Are you content with reducing amorous ecstasy to just 10 seconds?
Know that there are intelligent, refined human beings who aspire to the absolute of love and who have a clear and categorical answer - to always choose hours and hours of orgasm, of happiness and fulfillment, without vulgarizing our being, but on the contrary to be ever more virile as a man and feminine as a woman, to be charismatic and always full of love that we can offer our loved ones.
This is where the practical knowledge of how to control the sexual energy in the being comes in, how to access pure eros, refined sensuality rich in elevated feelings that delight the senses and relax you deeply, making you feel complete.
An important first step you can take after reading all this is to come and experience an authentic tantric massage at our Lila massage center in Vila Nova de Gaia, Porto.
You will soon be able to read other interesting and practical information that will help you in your efforts to become and remain a perfect tantric lover. Coming soon...