Orgasm without ejaculation - demystifying the myth
Here are 10 smart reasons to always choose multiple orgasms without ejaculation.
Did you know that you can experience an incredibly intense orgasm without ejaculating? In fact, this experience can be even more pleasurable and transformative.
We present to you an enlightening comparison between two types of pleasure: the common and fleeting one, associated with ejaculatory release, and the authentic tantric pleasure, based on control and conscious management of your valuable masculine potential.
Ejaculatory orgasm vs. multiple orgasm
| Ejaculatory orgasm | Multiple orgasm |
|---|---|
| Erotic energy explodes and dissipates quickly, without even having time to say "I love you." | Love energy implodes, accumulating and deepening, generating refined pleasure, love, and happiness. |
| Lasts only a few seconds, like a sneeze or a yawn. | Prolongs the pleasure experience, intensifying happiness and joy of living. |
| Leaves a sense of emptiness and nostalgia for ending so quickly. | Expands fulfillment, bringing lasting well-being and satisfaction. |
| Pleasure is felt only in the body. | Pleasure is accompanied by deep emotional, mental, and spiritual experiences. |
| Creates the illusion that pleasure depends exclusively on the other person. | Consciousness expands, leading to a transcendental love fusion and ecstatic freedom. |
| The woman plays a passive role, while the man is active. | The woman is active, and the man focuses on elevating awareness and channeling the energy of union. |
| Breathing becomes rapid and uncontrolled. | Breathing is deep, rhythmic, and calm. |
| Loss of control, triggering an instinctive and reflexive response. | Total control, allowing a conscious and ecstatic surrender. |
| Limited loving availability: after orgasm, fatigue and drowsiness set in. | Unlimited erotic availability, enabling long-lasting and intensely gratifying experiences. |
| Excessive and agitated movement. | Alternation between stillness and soft, harmonious, and tender movements. |
| Attachment, selfish desire, and possessiveness. | Detachment and fulfillment: a lasting feeling of happiness shared with the loved one through tenderness and gratitude. |
Are you ready to choose?
If you have decided to embark on this journey, your choice must be firm and determined. However, it is natural that, along the way, moments of temptation arise to return to old habits.
Why do these impulses persist?
Most people associate sexuality with ejaculation, so any external influence—a commercial, a movie scene, a simple romantic phrase—can trigger this conditioned desire.
How can you prevent this subconscious pattern from taking over?
To transform your relationship with sexuality, it is essential to explore the extraordinary responses of the body, psyche, and spirit to the power of pure and sublime eros.
At our tantric massage center, LILA, in Porto, we offer authentic sessions that will provide you with a new perspective on sensuality and pleasure. These experiences will help awaken in you the desire to preserve and enhance your vital energy.
To deepen this knowledge even further, we invite you to participate in our Workshop on the control of love energy and the dissociation between orgasm and ejaculation.
Come and discover new ways to experience eroticism in an uplifting, transformative, and truly rewarding manner! We wait for you!