To receive an authentic tantric massage: what is the correct attitude?
Receiving an authentic tantric massage: what is the correct attitude?
Over the years, since we have been performing this authentic tantric massage, we have been confronted with different attitudes from our guests who - due to a lack of education and behavior appropriate to authentic tantric therapy - have created problems and misunderstandings in their relationship with our therapists, sometimes making it impossible to carry out the therapeutic process under the conditions and standards appropriate to authentic tantric therapy.
Therefore, we consider it necessary to inform you that, in order to fully benefit from the extraordinary effects of authentic tantric therapy, it is necessary to adopt a certain attitude both before coming, as well as during the massage and, especially, at the end, when all the beneficial energies energized in your being need to be deeply fixed so that you can fully benefit, days after this massage.
Authentic tantric massage is a journey into the inner self
A tantric massage session is a sacred experience. Each touch is an invitation to dive deeply into your inner universe through pure eroticism, refined sensuality, deep breathing, and mindfulness.
Thus, tantric massage aims to transcend, step by step, the limits of the physical body and open doors to a sublime experience of reconnection with your divine self.
Clarifying the misconception
Unfortunately, there are still many misconceptions about tantric massage, so we would like to clarify that at our Lila center, we do NOT perform any type of sexual service.
Although this massage activity involves a certain amount of physical intimacy, this does not mean that, under any circumstances, the therapist's presence can be abused. Therefore, we do not allow sexual behavior to be suggested to our therapists, nor any intentional and disturbing touching that is not part of the chosen therapeutic process.
All contact is one-way
To fully enjoy the therapies we offer, the only thing to do when you come to visit us is to surrender completely and let the therapist work their magic. In our experience, when a guest persistently tries to touch the massage therapist, she will feel uncomfortable and tend to offer less.
Therefore, during a massage session, we recommend that you observe your mental process, seek to open up more and more internally, and live fully in the present moment.
If your attention is focused outward, continuously observing what the therapist is doing or trying to touch her, this will create mental agitation and discomfort for the therapist. This will create an uncomfortable situation and make it more difficult to receive the benefits of deep relaxation and energization.
To maintain balance, one person has the role of receiving and the other of giving. Thus, those who visit us come to receive deep relaxation, purification, energization, and harmonization at all levels of being. For this, it is necessary to adopt a receptive attitude.
The one who offers is the therapist, who, through the procedures they know, is emissive. During the session, they will apply all their knowledge in this area, doing their best to help the person they are massaging.
In this way, harmony can be created between the one who receives and the one who offers, so that the person being massaged can be guided in a subtle and much deeper way to the center of their being.
The importance of deep breathing
Another important attitude is to try to breathe as deeply as possible during the massage session. To do this, it is important to try to feel how the air circulates freely through your body. In this way, it will be much easier to eliminate all remaining tensions, you will feel your mind calm down, and you will be able to experience increasingly deeper states of pleasure and enchantment.
If your mind remains fixed only on the sexual area, expecting to feel pleasure only at that level, you will not be able to benefit from this tantric massage. This is because the authentic tantric massage we offer involves a much more complex and refined pleasure. Any part of the body thus becomes a sanctuary of pleasure, enchantment, and connection with the soul.
Cultivating a state of full consciousness
In addition, at the end of several sessions, we were confronted with different attitudes, such as the desire to ejaculate or receive manual sex, even though it had been communicated from the outset that this massage does not involve any sexual services or maneuvers in which sexual energy is eliminated; on the contrary, it will be harmonized and used for the benefit of the whole being.
Therefore, another very important attitude is to be attentive to the fixation of the effects at the level of consciousness, to the awareness of the new state that has arisen: that of expansion in a subtle higher sphere, deep purification, mental calm and harmony, inner freedom, happiness without object, greater capacity to love and feel loved, a better and clearer centering in one's own energy and in the perception of the essence of being.
This will allow you to fully enjoy what you have received in this authentic tantric therapy, just as you enjoy eating a meal in a restaurant that you really liked. Let the energy of the food continue to delight you and enjoy it, while the digestion process occurs naturally. In the same way, this authentic tantric massage, without ejaculation, can have its real effect on the body.
Saying that the massage was very good and that you feel good... but that ejaculation is missing... for an authentic tantric therapist, it is as if, after eating at that restaurant you chose and really enjoyed, you wanted to vomit to get rid of that food and stop the process of digestion and assimilation of the food's energies in your body.
It's not a very pleasant analogy, but I chose it because it's very enlightening.
We, as human beings, are composed of everything that makes up this universe, only in miniature. We are always connected to the entire universe, and everything that happens in our small body has repercussions throughout the universe, so that any authentic tantric therapy will echo throughout the Macrocosm.
This creation is based on love and, therefore, everything that has been created is sacred, holy. The attitude of an authentic tantric therapist is based on the fact that he is only an instrument, a channel through which these beneficial energies are allowed to manifest for the benefit of the person receiving the massage.